FAQ

Q. I’M INTERESTED IN MEETING YOU, BUT I CAN’T TELL IF YOU’RE A REAL PERSON. DO YOU HAVE ANY REVIEWS OR SOCIAL MEDIA I CAN LOOK AT?

A. I am absolutely real!

I also have a real job, friends and family, and I am working towards a professional career. While I understand this type of profession requires self-promotion for validity, as a cautious and private person, I prefer to have as little presence as possible. I choose to spend my time with discerning gentlemen who value mutual discretion and privacy so we can be completely and exclusively present with only each other.

Our time together should be cherished as our best kept secret so I rather we not kiss and tell.

For reviews, I have very few that exist if you properly did your research on me. For further privacy, I maintain a strict no review policy.

For social media, I have Bluesky and Twitter although I don’t really tweet. I prefer to live in the present. Once in a while, I will share a small glimpse of my mundane life and post some cute snapshots that I keep pretty vanilla. For the most part, I purposely keep selfies and special photos solely on my website!

Q. WHY DO YOU HIDE YOUR FACE? CAN YOU SEND ME A PHOTO TO VERIFY YOURSELF?

A. As this is a part-time endeavor for me and my day job requires me to talk to people all day long, I’d rather the two not interfere. I am photo and ID-verified on multiple sites including the one you found me on.

Also, I find it more fun to keep some things hidden until the very moment we meet.

Q. I AM HESITANT TO SCREEN, BUT I REALLY WANT TO MEET YOU. CAN YOU MAKE AN EXCEPTION FOR ME?

A. NO.

My screening requirements are paramount and standard in this industry to keep us both safe from harm and scams. If for any reason you cannot comply with my requirements, then I am not here to make any exceptions, ease my safety protocols, or attempt to convince you otherwise.

My need for safety should not require explanation or convincing.

Q. I SENT YOU A MESSAGE. WHY HAVEN’T I HEARD BACK FROM YOU?

A. Your first inquiry to me is my first impression of you. Please make it count!

Sending me a brief and impersonal message to gauge if I am a real person and see if I will respond back is very much c o u n t e r i n t u i t i v e and will not elicit a response from me.

I only engage with kind and respectful gentlemen whose inquiries provide all of my listed screening requirements in the initial message. I do not appreciate impersonal copy-and-paste messages, low effort inquiries, acronyms, explicit/unsafe requests, one word questions, etc. Inquiries with no proper introduction that purposely withhold screening info in exchange for my availability, incall location, and other private details do not make me feel safe or respected.

If it has been more than 24hrs and you have yet to receive a reply from me, then it is 100% likely I read your inquiry and chose not to respond due to anything and everything mentioned above.

If you’ve sent me a detailed inquiry with full screening details, I most likely replied. Please check your spam folder! You are more than welcome to follow up with me.

Q. OUR DATE IS CONFIRMED— I’M READY TO MEET! HOW CAN I PREPARE FOR OUR DATE?

A. That’s wonderful— I can’t wait to meet you too!

As my availability is rare, please courteously respond to my messages in a timely fashion. Should you need to reschedule or cancel for whatever reason, please let me know ASAP and respect my cancellation policy.

If you are anxiously waiting for our date, I appreciate my personal time to be respected as well. Please avoid "checking in" with me and sending me unnecessary messages. If you would like to chit chat in anticipation of our date, I offer online messaging sessions for us to get to know each other. But let's save some conversation for when we finally meet in person!

When you are absolutely ready to meet, I will follow up with you once on the day before or the morning of our date to confirm if you are still able to meet. I will provide everything you need for our date, so all you need to do is bring yourself and the consideration for my time.

Upon arrival, please be punctual, respectful, neatly groomed, and well-dressed for the occasion. At the beginning of our date, please present the gift for my time in an unsealed envelope or giftbag. And most importantly, relax! I will do my best to provide a comfortable and cozy experience for us. So please don’t expect anything more than a relaxing time with a nice and charming girl!

If you are still unsure about something, just ask! But please remember to be kind and courteous. I do not answer personal or explicit questions, or anything that is clearly explained on my site. I appreciate all questions to be asked in your initial message. Further questions will be answered in person.

Q. I'M WORRIED I'M GOING TO BE TOO AWKWARD AND NERVOUS WHEN WE FINALLY MEET. CAN YOU TAKE THE LEAD?

A. It's totally okay to be nervous!

As a naturally shy person, I always get nervous when meeting new friends too, especially in such a private and intimate setting as our first encounter.

On very rare occasions, sometimes a very s h y - a n d - a w k w a r d l y - n e r v o u s someone will wander into my life and I am forced to break character. Your nervousness makes me nervous! Too nervous that I don't know what to do with myself or you! And that's okay. Let's just be nervous together and enjoy the awkwardness as it quietly fills the room until one of us finally works up the courage to make the first move (most likely me if you really are too nervous!).

Nervousness aside, I pride myself on being a true professional so allow me to put you at ease as we share a sigh of relief upon meeting. I'm real. You're real. This is really h a p p e n i n g. I will take the lead for us and make sure we have a comfortable time together~